⸸ welcome to the banshee queen's haunted parlor. please enjoy your stay ⸸

for viewers:

👻 My content is not meant for minors to consume. If you are under 18, you should probably look elsewhere.
👻 I am happily taken by my boyfriend, Capra. I am monogamous. I will not flirt with/date anyone else and neither will he.
👻 I am not a lewdtuber, but suggestive material may be available at some points. Nothing is an invitation to flirt with me.
👻 I can't divide my attention too thin, and I can't be friends with everyone. I only have so much energy at a time so please respect that.
👻 I am only able to collab with friends, and I can be quite picky with people. It's nothing personal. I've just been through too much and don't want to waste anybody's time if the energies don't mesh well together.

for friends:

😈 I have autism, ADHD and a handful of mental disorders that make consistent communication difficult for me.
😈 I don't do small talk very well at all. It's hard for me to form a conversation without a specific topic. If I don't respond, the chances are extremely likely that I just cannot think of anything to say. I figure, I'd rather not say anything than force a response where neither of us are fully satisfied.
😈 I frequently go through periods of feeling social or not very social at all. There are times I may not respond or give very short/dry responses. Take this as a nonverbal approach. Being forced to mask for most of my life has made it difficult to keep it up any longer.
😈 I do not have "friendship degradation". If we don't speak for days, weeks, months etc. I will still like you just as much.
😈 You are not bothering me or saying the wrong thing. I'm very outspoken; trust me, I will tell you if something is wrong ASAP.

do's:

💜 Read this carrd so you get a better idea of my boundaries. If you interact with me and I can tell you either have common sense or have read this, I will be much more enthusiastic.
💜 Feel free to lurk, chat, share or simply observe! I am not going to try and force interactions out of you on streams if you're a shy person.
💜 Show appreciation in a respectful way.
💜 Clip stuff you like! I will be extremely happy if you do!
💜 Ask me questions, tell me stories, tell jokes, etc! I like being given ways to talk about various subjects.
💜 If you want to be friends, please approach slowly and ask me if it's ok to talk directly, or just be chill and friendly and I might reach out to you first, who knows?
💜 Talk about stuff we're both into! I do well in conversations with substance, so feel free to mention whatever as long as it's appropriate.
💜 At cons, please feel free to say hi or chat for a bit! It's always nice meeting fans & friends.

don'ts:

💔 Please don't follow me/talk to me in the hopes you'll get a chance with me romantically or sexually. Never going to happen. I will not be nice about it.
💔 I am bad with small talk, so starting conversations with "how are you" or just "hi" will make me freeze up. I can't build a conversation around that, sorry.
💔 Don't be racist, sexist, transphobic, ableist, or anything in that vein. The only people I believe that deserve to be made fun of are actually morally bad people who make choices that actively harm others. Choices =/= things you can't help.
💔 No humor that involves being mean to me/bullying me unless I know you personally and consider you a close friend. A lot of the time people just say mean things and pretend they're joking, so I want to avoid that.
💔 Don't DM me unless I say it's okay. I can't respond to a million DMs and I don't have the energy to respond if I'm spread too thin.
💔 At cons, I do not want to be touched. No headpats, no hugs, no picking me up. If you want a handshake or high five please ASK FIRST.